5 WAYS TO BE COOL AT THE PARTY

Sometimes You just dont know when networking become power, and its coming from several occasion like the party. To gain that, With a little practice, we can all be cool, or at least pseudo-cool. Check these tips to be cool at the party!

1. Laugh at everything resembling humor:
This is crucial. Laughter demonstrates an awareness of your surroundings and, if performed correctly, can be infectious. Analyze what style of laugh is appropriate to the situation. A silent animated laugh often follows the most hilarious moments, while a big smile accompanied with a two syllable ha-ha fits most low to mid-level jokes.

2. Never think twice about offering someone a drink or a snack:
Even if it's your own. So long as they're of legal age and limit, offer them one of the beers you bought, or a granola bar from your purse. If you give someone a drink that you paid for, they're sure to remember you.
Though, creepiness can be a factor here, too. Never offer someone that you've never met a drink, as it doesn't say "I'm cool," it says "I'm interested," which are two entirely different and contradictory statements .

3. Avoid alcohol?:
Yes, This one's tough. If you can stand several dozen drunk slobs while you're stone sober yourself, then go for it, as this is the golden ticket. Maintain your sense of humor (and your equilibrium) and you can come off as being quite mature, without seeming arrogant. Having the capability to drive others home at the end of the night also scores major bonus points. You don't, however, want to avoid alcohol if you're going to be a miserable debbie downer. The key is to drink as little as necessary.

4. Don't talk about yourself, but be yourself:
The thing is people don't care about you. At least not yet; so they don't want to hear about the car you drive, the people you associate with, your pet chinchilla's name or the race and class of your World of Warcraft avatar. Instead, demonstrate your persona through the clothes you wear, your actions, and the occasional offhanded reference. For instance, if you love unicorns, wear a unicorn t-shirt, but do not under any circumstance TALK about unicorns. It's one thing to be yourself, as that's when you're at your most comfortable; but it's another to impress yourself on others who are nothing like you. Most people love talking about themselves. Get them to do so and you're one step closer to James Dean.

5. Don't be creepy:
You are not there to pick up chicks or dudes. In fact, you're not even there to meet a potential future pickup. This may seem contrary to the overall goal, as you might often consider the coolest folks to be the ones that go home with other cool folks while you're left standing in a room by yourself with only empty bottles, some vomit and a Nintendo Wii to keep you company. You're there to have fun, to meet people, to make sure they're having fun, all the while having, or at least pretending to have loads of fun yourself. Do it.

Conclusion:
Coolness is an art that can't be achieved by reading an article written by somebody who might be a wonderful observer of people, but uncool himself. Likewise, when reading these suggestions, bear in mind that if done incorrectly adverse effects will ensue.

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